When to order Mother's Day flowers: a timing guide

In Germany, Mother's Day always falls on the second Sunday in May. That sounds like plenty of notice — but in practice, thousands of people leave it until the final week. The result: overstretched delivery services, sold-out varieties and bouquets that arrive after the day has passed. This guide explains when to order Mother's Day flowers, what to watch out for and how to avoid the most common mistakes.

Why the timing of your order matters so much

Mother's Day is the second biggest flower-giving occasion of the year, after Valentine's Day. In Germany alone, around 25 million bouquets are given — all in a single weekend. That puts enormous pressure on growers, retailers and delivery services alike. Order too late and you may not get the varieties you want, you may have to pay for expensive express delivery, or the flowers may simply not arrive in time.

Online flower retailers that work directly with growers in the Netherlands can handle larger volumes than a local florist — but even they have limits. Popular varieties such as red roses and peonies sell out early. Planning ahead gives you the widest choice and often saves money, because you avoid express surcharges.

What to sort out before you place your order

Before you click "order", it is worth settling a few things in advance. It saves time and makes sure the bouquet is exactly right.

  • Delivery address: will Mum be at home? Or should the bouquet go to a different address, such as a care home or another flat?
  • Favourite flowers: does she prefer classic roses, cheerful sunflowers or elegant lilies? If you are not sure, a colourful spring bouquet is always a safe choice.
  • Budget: Mother's Day bouquets start at around €20 and go up to large arrangements over €60. Decide in advance so you do not make a rushed choice under time pressure.
  • Delivery date: should the bouquet arrive on Mother's Day itself, or the Saturday before? Many retailers let you choose a preferred delivery date — use that option.
  • Gift message: many online shops let you add a personal note. Write the text before you start your order so you are not composing it under pressure.

Step by step: how to order in good time

  1. Note the date: Mother's Day is the second Sunday in May. Put it in your calendar at the start of the year so you do not forget it.
  2. Two to three weeks before: start comparing options. Look at varieties, prices and delivery choices. Many retailers open their Mother's Day collections as early as the beginning of April.
  3. Seven to ten days before Mother's Day: this is the ideal time to order. The full range is still available, standard delivery is included without a surcharge and you have a buffer if anything is delayed.
  4. Three to five days before: still possible, but the most popular varieties may already be sold out. Check express delivery options carefully and read the delivery terms.
  5. Less than 48 hours before: very risky. Express delivery is expensive and not always available. At this point a local florist is often the better option — or you could hand over the bouquet in person a day later.

Mother's Day flowers: which varieties work best?

Mother's Day flowers should suit the personality of the recipient and feel right for the season. May offers a wonderful range of spring blooms that look fresh and full of life.

  • Roses: the classic choice. In May they are in full season and available in every colour — from soft pink and salmon to vivid red.
  • Peonies: lush, romantic and quintessentially May. Peonies have a short season, so it is worth reserving them early.
  • Tulips: still available in early May, especially in soft white, yellow or pink. They have a shorter vase life than roses but look wonderfully fresh and springlike.
  • Lilies: elegant and long-lasting. Lilies have an intense fragrance and, with good care, can last up to two weeks.
  • Mixed spring bouquets: a combination of several varieties looks especially generous and personal — ideal if you do not know her favourite flower.

Common mistakes when ordering Mother's Day flowers

Even careful planners can fall into typical traps. Here are the three most common mistakes — and how to avoid them.

Mistake 1: ordering too late

The most common mistake is putting it off. Many people think "I'll do it next week" — and suddenly it is the Friday before Mother's Day. The fix: set a reminder for two weeks before Mother's Day and place your order straight away.

Mistake 2: not checking the delivery terms

Not all retailers deliver on Sundays. If you do not read the small print, you may order for Sunday only to find the flowers arrive on Monday. Always check whether Sunday delivery is available, or choose Saturday as your delivery day. This applies beyond Mother's Day too: whenever you order holiday flowers for a public holiday or weekend occasion in Germany, always confirm the delivery day first.

Mistake 3: entering the wrong delivery address

Typing errors happen when you are in a hurry. A wrong house number or postcode can mean the bouquet never arrives. Take a moment to check every detail before you confirm the order.

Tips for the freshest bouquet — straight from the grower

Flowers shipped directly from growers in the Netherlands are often fresher than those that have spent days in cold stores or on supermarket shelves. That means they arrive in bud and open gradually at the recipient's home — significantly extending the enjoyment.

To help the flowers last, consider including a short care note with the order. Many online shops provide one automatically. The key tips: cut the stems at an angle, use clean low-lime water, change the water daily and keep the vase in a cool spot away from direct sunlight.

If you are sending flowers for Mother's Day, choose a retailer that uses insulated cool packaging. That way the blooms survive the journey even on warmer May days.

Seasonal considerations: why May is ideal

Mother's Day in May falls during one of the most beautiful flowering periods of the year. Unlike Valentine's Day in February or International Women's Day in March — when many varieties are not yet in season — May offers a natural abundance of fresh flowers. Roses, peonies, freesias and ranunculus are all available at the same time. If you would like to order womensday flowers for someone in Germany, the same early-ordering advice applies.

That abundance also means demand is enormous. Growers in the Netherlands do produce extra stock for Mother's Day, but rarer varieties such as peonies and gardenias sell out quickly. If you have your heart set on particular flowers, order early.

Compared with other flower-heavy occasions such as Father's Day, which usually falls in June, Mother's Day represents a far larger ordering peak. Keep that in mind when you plan. You can also order fathers day flowers well in advance using the same approach.

Frequently asked questions

When exactly is Mother's Day in Germany?

Mother's Day in Germany always falls on the second Sunday in May. The date moves each year between 8 and 14 May. In 2025 it is on 11 May; in 2026 it falls on 10 May.

How far in advance should I order Mother's Day flowers?

The ideal window is seven to ten days before Mother's Day. You will have the full range to choose from, no express surcharges and enough buffer for any delivery delays. If you want a specific variety such as peonies, order two to three weeks ahead.

Can I have flowers delivered on the Saturday before Mother's Day?

Yes — and it is often the better choice. Many retailers do not deliver on Sundays, and a Saturday delivery gives the recipient time to trim the stems and arrange the flowers properly. Delivery logistics are also smoother on a Saturday than on the Sunday itself.

What if I have forgotten Mother's Day?

Do not panic. First check whether your preferred online retailer still offers express delivery for Mother's Day. If not, a local florist is your best option. Alternatively, you could send a gift voucher now and follow it up with flowers a few days later — along with a personal apology and an honest "I didn't forget you, just the calendar."

Conclusion: planning early is always worth it

When is the best time to order Mother's Day flowers? The clear answer is seven to ten days before — or two to three weeks ahead if you want a special variety. Planning early means the widest choice, the freshest flowers and no stress about express fees or late deliveries.

Whether you want to order mothers day flowers for your mum, your mother-in-law or another important person in your life, the effort is genuinely worthwhile. A fresh, carefully chosen bouquet that arrives on time is a real sign of appreciation — and that comes through.